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Tuesday, July 9, 2013

New House and New Beginnings



We are finally getting settled into the new house. We still have got a long way to go before we are comfortable but we are fixin to get there. Yes, I used the word fixin and that means here in Texas about to or getting ready to how ever you want to put it!

Last July my Father passed away from a heart attack. We were currently at that time looking into buying a house for cash outright. My take on it was if you are going to live in the white trash ghetto(maybe that is a little harsh but we have seen some crazy shizzle around these parts) sticks of Texas you might as well do the best you can. Houses around here go for pretty cheap especially because of the foreclosures. Let me tell you they are not the ritz and well I had to except that long ago. When we first moved here we thought we were getting a steal on the house. Well we soon realized the big scam we had fell into and quickly started to search for a way out.  So with the money my Dad had left me the money in savings and the money that my Mom let us borrow we got this house for cash. $28,500 to be exact. The house is small but was completely remolded inside and it was certainly a step up from the house we were originally living in and fixing up. It also sits on 3 acres and is out of the flood zone, glory, glory hallelujah !   The decision came to stay here to ensure that I could continue to stay home full time with the boys. I never realized how hard it would be giving up my income.  My husband calls me his sugar Mama, one thing I was good at was making money. Well that sugar went dry moving out here and it has been a huge struggle on one income. So we decided to plant our roots here, dig our feet in and get a little more dirty!
 
 Did I mention we live in the ghetto? Yes, just last week our new neighbors dog pooped on the kids slide. For real what dog does that? Of course our neighbor got told that we would shoot his dog if we seen it again on our property. Zach and I make friends very quickly around these parts ha,ha.The other neighbor across the way accused us of stealing their goat and their rooster...People please, I got better things to do, well let's hope I do ha,ha.  I'm hoping to have more ridiculousness to share in the future but for now here are some pics of the new place!

                                 The new garden beds in progress
   We have sand soil instead of clay so Mom has had to adapt to the new soil the kids enjoy playing in the sand though!
 And here she is 1200 sft of pure awesomeness or ghettoness depending on the day, haha
                                    Keynan helping Dad with garden beds.
Owning 3 acres is great but it is a lot to maintain. Luckily we have strong boys who help  us with the chores around the house and yard!
                            Thayne looking like Mr. cool on the riding mower



                                 The garden plot before the beds were put in.

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

We are alive!!!!!!!!!




    Hello out there!!!!! So much for blogging more this last year! We did accomplish most of our to do's except the blogging!!! I have been meaning to post because there is so much excitement I can hardley wait to tell anyone out there that might be looking in!!!!!!

Well in 2012 we did run a 5k, we got a new computer(regretfully it is not a new mac), We got a car for me!!!! I planted a mild size garden. The schedule is still a work in progress as I realize I am an undiscplined mess and a huge procrastinator!!!!

We also discovered some of our lab values are low and we were diagnosed with low thyroid levels.(Hypothyroid) I mention this because both Zach and I caught this in search of his chronic pain issues. I wish I could blame all the up's and downs of the last year on that  but it is mostly allowing negative emotions and other peolple's toxic behaviors and treatment and  negative opnions and gossip to dictate our destiny. I can say I am feeling like a new person with some self worth after removing myself away from these certian people. Zach also has removed himself long before I have and I am just following suit. Enough about that stuff though we are bound for contentment and investing more time with each other and our boys!!!

I am not sure when I will get back on here to catch back up but here is a list of all that is keeping us busy these days!!!

The boys started Soccer in the fall of 2012 and they will continue in the Spring of 2013. They no longer want to pursue baseball soccer has become their mojo! Keynan is also playing soccer even though he is not interested maybe because Mommy is the coach?

We finally got to start them in basketball(one of Mom's favorite sports) We have a winner here too!!! They both love it and are doing farely well for just starting!

All the boys just started a homeschool co-op which is just what they needed. The twins go to a chemistry/ Physics class and Keynan is doing a Where does it come from class. This last week the twins made ballon powered  vehicles and Keynan made bread and learned about raw milk.

Zach got a drum set for Christmas and he has wanted one since he was 12!!!!! He is teaching the boys how to drum and they love it too. He still is of course playing bass guitar, guitar, banjo and singing and writing his own music on the side! He is currently helping me with a lot of my unfinished songs. We also completed are studio setup and we are gearing up to build a recording studio sound proofed and all. A life long dream for both of us.

Zach left the big fancy manger positon at his job about a year ago. He is now working at a small engine shop learning how to fix all sorts of stuff. He now can fix our chain saw and mowers and he is learning 4 stroke engines as I type. He is also their main delivery guy. This helps because we have still yet to find out what is causing so much arthritis pain. So having a break from the manual labor helps. Zach is currently debating to take a few more semesters at Sam Houston University to finish his BFA in Art. This would open him up to so many more jobs but we refuse to go in debt over it so we are waiting to hear back from a current graphic job that does require the paper trail.

Randa is busy preparing meals, doing laundrey, cleaning, homeschooling, Yelling at the kids when they don't listen, threatning to take away all sports if shoes and pants are left on the living room and bedroom floor...I am amazed how much a mess they all can make!!!!!!!!  Trying to catch them outside to wheel them in to read is like pullig teeth..not so bad lately they have dicovered a mild passion to read. They like History and science and math and music and they are discovering they must read to know more about these subjects... So even though I would love to say my kids are picking up the Chronicles Of Narnia and reading aloud, it is a pipe dream in itself!!!!

Randa has also done a few photo shoots in the last few months. I still have projects that are half way through.. I hope to catch up on this month. I hope to catch up before the few Wedding Gigs I have coming up. It is exciting and nerve wracking all at the same time.. I wish there was a Mommy/Randa clone!!!!  I also have a few cleaning jobs I do once a week. I trade one of the ladies for Piano lessons..  My life long dream of piano lessons is coming true in my 30's and it sure has helped having a teacher because I am a self taught mostly on my guitar!!!!

I also have been studying more and more of God's word and I am teaching a class on Proverbs 31 at the church Zach and I started attending about a year ago. It is teaching me alot and I will hopefully have a few posts on that!!!!! No promises though I am wondering how in the world to keep up with all of this!!!!!!

Anyhow we are surely alive and still kicking!!!!! We are enjoying so much of our life that sometimes we feel we don't need sleep!! I guess we just feel really blessed and grateful to have one another... We have not kept in touch with everyone so much! So here is a big shout out to all of you who peak in from time to time!!!!!

Love always,

Randa